I think we are just as confused as he is. Seriously, get off the fence and pick one side or the other.
Actually, I don't think he's confused. I think you are. Did you ever think that maybe there's not a fence? Or that maybe there's a difference between sex, gender, and gender identity?
An acquaintance has a shirt that says,"Gender is not binary." Think about it really hard, person of Walmart. (I think I'll shorten that to POW from now on. The double meaning's nice).